On Monday the 14th, I suddenly felt SO MUCH better! It was astonishing! This past week was night and day with how I'd been feeling. As of Wednesday, zero pain. I can sleep easily, I'm not napping during the day anymore, I can wear regular (non button-front/zip front) clothing...magic I tell ya!
AND, I drove 3 times this week! The last time I drove my car was September 23rd! Eesh. I go back to work on Tuesday. In the 4 weeks since I've been home, the weather has turned and my closet was still full of summer clothes. When I do seasonal closet swaps, I also purge.
Long story short, nothing that is a wrap style will work going forward. That isn't surprising. If I made any wrap front garments, they would have absolutely required an FBA.
This NL6301 (a few versions seen here!) wrap dress just does NOT work. LOL!
This NL6123 dress - WAHHH! I have a wedding to attend in early November and I have worn this to a couple weddings and it's a great party dress.
Here, you can see it isn't just the bust that doesn't fit. The entire neckline (including the back), the armholes, the fit is completely different.
I couldn't take the dress off fast enough to try on one of my favorite tops. OY!!!!!! It is also weirdly loose in the entire neck/shoulder...and then there's the bust.
Breast reductions includes a lift. The dart is circled and it definitely pointed to my bust point when the top was made. The scribbled line is my new bust point.
Well now, this is going to be interesting...
-Solid colored tops with darts are out - the dart is completely and noticeably in the wrong place.
-Princess seamed garments are out because there's too much fullness and I would have, in most cases, lowered the bust point.
-Pullover tops (like my beloved M6519) seem okay.
-Tees and other knits that I made 'cheater FBA' adjustments on fit okay in the bust but are a bit droopy at the neckline.
-Any shopping that I do is more than likely from LOFT. I have quite a few LOFT tops and some of my faves are their "mixed media" where the back is knit and the front is woven. As expected, these fit great now. Below is the single RTW dress that I own (for work...I have a few casual dresses).
Big difference!
Lastly, I cleaned out my bra drawer. There is a non profit that collects new and gently used bras and I'll be shipping the nice ones off to them. The others that showed obvious wear, I harvested the rings and sliders from. It wasn't until I finished that I realized my new size probably won't require the super wide straps/elastic that was needed in these bras.
I can't wait until I'm fully healed to explore bra making! Most swelling will resolve by ~3 months and final shape and size can often be realized by around month 6. Although the window given is usually 6-12 months.
I have been working on a project for Minerva Crafts, so that'll be coming eventually...after finishing that up, I cut out a new version of M7812. I was able to UNDO MY FBA! I'll include the details when I review it but I was so, so happy to do so :-D
It's still a WIP and I'm wearing a sports bra (for compression for a few more weeks!) but I am so, so, happy with the fit!
red lacing was just to try it on before finishing the side seams...
still needs hemming all around (neckline, hem, sleeves)
16 comments:
part of me gets sad when nothing i made fits anymore, the other part gets super excited for a new wardrobe to sew!! Glad you had the turn around and are feeling better. here's to learning new adjustments for your body :-)
So glad you are feeling better! Over time your posture may change somewhat as well, since you are carrying less weight on the front of your torso. At least you are a fast sewist! That will help you once you figure out how to fit your new body!
I quite like the red ribbons on yellow!
How exciting to have a new shape to sew for, and possibly overwhelming too. Wishing you well for the rest of your recuperation.
I had mine done ayear ago last May. I wish I had done it done years ago. I lost about 7 lbs. during surgery. I have less back pain .
So glad you're feeling better. What an extensive purge you're facing! I find it very cathartic. And all those new clothes your going to sew and buy--how fun and exciting!
Due to bilateral mastectomy, I went from a DD to a B sewing cup. I too found that darts didn't work any longer. However, several princess blouses were salvageable. I ripped out the front princess seam and changed the curve. Even though my bust point is higher, I was able to make it work due to the reducing from DD to B. For some knit tops, just taking them in under the arms helped a lot.
The hardest part for me was figuring out bust darts. Keep in mind I'm totally implants and no nipples so my shape is definitely different. But after 4 years I'm definitely making progress.
I should have said existing bust darts didn't work any longer.
I hope your mastectomy put you in the clear!!
What a great suggestion with princess seams! There is one dress that really makes me sad to lose and it may be worth ripping those seams out and reducing the bust curve.
I’ll keep that in mind with knit tops too as I could see that helping pull everything together.
looking good! that purple dress is so pretty and I know you dislike alterations but I think it could be adjusted, using the seams at the shoulder and waist to tighten up the front bodice pieces, as well as some taking it at the upper side seam. Or maybe just make a new one :)
So happy you are getting better and doing well!
Just think you have an opportunity to make a brand new wardrobe!
Boy, does this all look familiar (in a happy way)! I found that I could still wear some of my knit tops that had a decent amount of negative ease, but NONE of my pre-surgery wrap-anything fit me any more--it was all comically baggy. I LOVE no longer having to lower darts on things, RTW darts actually hit me in the right place, and as long as I stick with patterns with D-cup options, I no longer have to do FBAs!
Glad to hear you are feeling better!
You have so many beautiful dresses, I hope you can salvage some of them. The ones you can't save, perhaps can be turned into skirts? I know you have alterations, though, so perhaps this will be a stash-busting (no pun intended) opportunity 😁
I'm glad you're finally feeling better! A bit sad about that purple dress - it was amazing - but no FBA sounds life-changing.
It is so amazing how the body recovers! I am glad you reached the point where you really feel all the healing taking place. Thank you for sharing your journey. I look forward to seeing how your wardrobe adjusts.
I am thinking in get a reduction too... I was going to try and stabilize in my ideal weight before, to not lose the lift effect.... But is hard to exercise when you don't find bras on your size....
So good to hear you have come through OK, I had no idea! Best wishes for your continued recovery and your new wardrobe.
@laineemakes
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